The best gift you can give someone you love

February 18, 2021

The best gift you can give someone you care about is seeing and accepting them as they are; it’s hearing their voice, what they are deeply saying; it’s understanding them and accepting who they are and where they’re at without judgment or the need to...

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How to let go

November 9, 2020

In many instances in life we are required to "let go". When we lose our job or decide to change career ; when a relationship or friendship ends ; when our life circumstances change or we realise our dreams won't come true. If you think...

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Dealing with the pandemic

March 31, 2020

No doubt you've been affected by the recent COVID-19 pandemic. The past few weeks have been an absolute roller coaster and perhaps one of the most difficult things we faced early on was the uncertainty of what was going to happen. As a result we...

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Why your partner is not perfect for you

January 27, 2020

I keep coming across people who struggle in their personal relationships. They often complain about their partner, family members or close ones, and what I find curious is that most of the complaints all have one thing in common: they're all about why the other...

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How to stop being a people-pleaser

November 25, 2019

Being a people-pleaser is one of the most common traits I've observed around me, whether it's with my close ones, my colleagues or my clients. So many of us have learnt somehow to become a people-pleaser and we're not even conscious that's what we're doing...

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The difference between needs and expectations

July 22, 2019

We hear a lot that the secret for happiness in relationships is to not have any expectations. From Paulo Coelho who tells us in The Alchemist: “When someone sees the same people every day, as had happened with him at the seminary, they wind up...

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Who’s hurting you?

December 10, 2018

How can we improve our communication with others? When I witness my clients' issues with their loved ones, I am always baffled as to why so many people experience problems in their relationships. Whether it's with family, spouse or co-workers, how come we struggle so...

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How to forgive?

September 17, 2018

I hope my previous article on forgiveness last month was useful to you! The second realisation I wanted to share with you today was about the next step into our forgiveness journey. Once we have healed and honoured our own pain, then how do we forgive those...

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How to cope with fear of intimacy

April 27, 2017

Someone said to me a few days ago something that really hit home. They said "In life, we are actually always alone. The moment the ombilical cord is being cut straight after birth, this is it, that blissful fusion we felt for 9 months in...

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From expectations to freedom

April 18, 2017

When I observe our lives, I can't help to notice that most of our disappointments, hurts or resentments come from our expectations. The expectations we have on other people, or on how things should be. The other day I was disappointed because I asked a...

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