The difference between needs and expectations

July 22, 2019

We hear a lot that the secret for happiness in relationships is to not have any expectations. From Paulo Coelho who tells us in The Alchemist: “When someone sees the same people every day, as had happened with him at the seminary, they wind up...

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What’s the secret to happy relationships?

May 17, 2016

As I'm about to train students in Transactional Analysis skills for coaches next weekend, I'm exploring the drama triangle dynamic in depth at the moment. I'm quite interested by the work of Barry and Janae Weinhold on codependency, where they explore the early childhood dynamics's...

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NLP is just a tool

September 30, 2013

I've recently completed my AAMET EFT training level 1&2 and as I was training, it confirmed something really important that became the root of my Person-Centred NLP approach. When you work with clients, the most important thing is not the repertoire of processes you have...

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