February 18, 2021
The best gift you can give someone you care about is seeing and accepting them as they are; it’s hearing their voice, what they are deeply saying; it’s understanding them and accepting who they are and where they’re at without judgment or the need to...
November 9, 2020
In many instances in life we are required to "let go". When we lose our job or decide to change career ; when a relationship or friendship ends ; when our life circumstances change or we realise our dreams won't come true. If you think...
January 27, 2020
I keep coming across people who struggle in their personal relationships. They often complain about their partner, family members or close ones, and what I find curious is that most of the complaints all have one thing in common: they're all about why the other...
July 22, 2019
We hear a lot that the secret for happiness in relationships is to not have any expectations. From Paulo Coelho who tells us in The Alchemist: “When someone sees the same people every day, as had happened with him at the seminary, they wind up...
December 10, 2018
How can we improve our communication with others? When I witness my clients' issues with their loved ones, I am always baffled as to why so many people experience problems in their relationships. Whether it's with family, spouse or co-workers, how come we struggle so...
April 27, 2017
Someone said to me a few days ago something that really hit home. They said "In life, we are actually always alone. The moment the ombilical cord is being cut straight after birth, this is it, that blissful fusion we felt for 9 months in...
March 3, 2017
Most of our behaviours and actions in life are controlled by what we believe. Your attitude to money will depend on what you believe about money. If you think having lots of money is a bad thing, you are likely to sabotage yourself when trying...
February 28, 2017
When you suffer from low self esteem, confidence issues or fear of abandonment - to name a few of the codependency symptoms I describe often, relationships can be one of the most difficult area in your life. Because of its level of intimacy, both physical...
February 23, 2017
I was having a chat with a friend the other day by the fireplace, and our conversation led us to talk about codependency and counter-dependency. I'm really fascinated by that topic and I've been studying it and working with it for almost a decade now....
February 18, 2017
You may have noticed from my previous posts that I'm very intrigued at the moment by how we create suffering for ourselves. Different approaches - mindfulness, buddhism or the work of Eckhart Tolle to name a few - refer to the ego as a source...
