May 5, 2018
Following up on my last post, I have had some enquiries on how to tackle the mind addiction and take control of our mind. I was talking to a client about it, and she opened up on the fact she felt a bit helpless in...
May 5, 2018
Following up on my last post, I have had some enquiries on how to tackle the mind addiction and take control of our mind. I was talking to a client about it, and she opened up on the fact she felt a bit helpless in...
April 5, 2018
I recently came across a great video on over-thinking that deeply resonated with some recent thoughts I had been having. In this video, that you can watch below, Rob Dial explains that we can actually become addicted to our thinking, and even more so to...
March 8, 2017
I keep finding that one of the most tricky question to answer is What is NLP? I've been an NLP practitioner for about a decade now, and I still don't like being asked that question! You can describe NLP in a lot of different ways, and...
February 23, 2017
I was having a chat with a friend the other day by the fireplace, and our conversation led us to talk about codependency and counter-dependency. I'm really fascinated by that topic and I've been studying it and working with it for almost a decade now....
February 18, 2017
You may have noticed from my previous posts that I'm very intrigued at the moment by how we create suffering for ourselves. Different approaches - mindfulness, buddhism or the work of Eckhart Tolle to name a few - refer to the ego as a source...
February 13, 2017
I've been working a lot last year around our relationship to pain. Emotional and physical pain. I've observed that our natural reaction to pain is to try to avoid it, to block it or run away from it. After all, why wouldn't we? Pain is...
September 23, 2016
I've already shared my view on the necessity to give ourselves some time to grief but today I'd like to talk about how to actually deal with grief. I'm not sure if you're familiar with the popular 5 stages of grief developed by Elisabeth Kubler-Ross that offers...
May 10, 2016
I am reading a book by Thomas Moore, the dark night of the soul, that is really starting to shift my approach to therapy. As a solution-focused trained therapist myself, I have always adopted the view that when issues arise and dark emotions take over...
January 21, 2015
Do you find it difficult to communicate effectively in your relationships, whether it's with your partners, friends or your work colleagues? Do you often get caught into misunderstandings that create unnecessary tensions? Do you keep reproducing the same patterns over and over again in relationships...
August 21, 2014
Have you ever been in a situation where you feel an emotion and then beat yourself up for it? I've spoken to countless clients in the past few years in my practice, and there's a theme that keeps coming back: the lack of self-acceptance especially...